Man ruins coworker Karen's pregnancy reveal at work, causing tension in the workplace when the office takes her side: “You stole my thunder”

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    AITA for "ruining" my coworker's big reveal by guessing it right away?

    "She kept hinting she had huge news, but wouldn't tell us until Friday"
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    So, I (24M) work in an office where we all get along pretty well. One of my coworkers, "Amy" (30F), is super into dramatic announcements. She once revealed she got a dog by bringing in balloons shaped like paw prints. She's fun, and we all humor her because, honestly, the office can get boring.
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    Last week, Amy was bursting with excitement. She kept hinting she had "HUGE news" but wouldn't tell anyone until Friday during our team lunch. All week, she was dropping vague hints like, "It's something life-changing," and "You'll NEVER guess!" Naturally, this got everyone speculating-
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    was she engaged? Pregnant? Won the lottery? Bought a house?
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    By Thursday, I was kind of over it. So, when she made another big "I can't wait to tell you all!" comment, I jokingly said, "What, are you pregnant or something?" ...Well. She froze, looked at me, and said, "Um, yes. That's my news."
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    The room got SUPER awkward. She looked upset, and a couple of our coworkers gave me the stink eye. I apologized right away, saying I was just guessing and didn't mean to ruin her moment. She brushed it off, but the vibe was weird for the rest of the day.
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    Friday rolls around, and during the big lunch reveal, she goes, "As SOME of you may have already figured out...I'm pregnant!" Everyone clapped, but I could tell she was still annoyed.
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    Later, she told me I "stole her thunder" and that I should've just let her have her moment. I get it, but also...how was I supposed to know I'd guess right?
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    Some of my coworkers agree with her and think I was ride. Others think it's not a big deal since it was just a lucky guess. Now I'm wondering-AITA for accidentally spoiling her big announcement?
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    Edit: She had previously brought up the hopes of pregnancy or else the comment would have never been made.
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    Live-Ice7323 NTA. She stole her own thunder by dragging it out for days. Thankfully you pulled the plug on it.
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    Present Dimension619 Tbh if she wanted to surprise everyone she should have cut to the chase a lot sooner. Pregnancy is one of the first things people guess when they state they have big news. Seems like her own fault tbh.
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    Rocquestar "You'll NEVER guess!"... until you did.
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    Empress-Palpetine NTA, she sounds obnoxious AF.
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    Fit General7058 Nta It wasn't a moment though, was it? It was a whole week, with clues that had I'm prefnant all over them.
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    She said you'd never guess, which is inviting guesses. She obviously believes having a baby is so rare, none of you would think that could be it. That there thunder went rumbling on far too long.
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    I'd prefer a boring office to one with Amy in.
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    Spoopyowo NTA she needs to grow the FK up, especially if she is having a child. I assume she has no real life and thus forces her "big" moments on people that are forced to work in an area with her.
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    BoomerBaby1955 Every now and then I read a post like this that makes me so glad I'm retired! Your co- worker sounds exhausting. ΝΤΑ
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    Crystalshuffle Maybe try talking to Amy again and genuinely expressing your excitement for her. Acknowledge that you accidentally took away from her reveal, but reiterate that you're happy for her.
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    Fredredphooey NTA. She certainly gave enough clues. You would have had a hard time not figuring it out.

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